One year ago today was my first chemo treatment. It was one of the most emotional days of my life...right up there with my wedding, a miscarriage, birth of 3 kids and news of cancer diagnosis. Mark & I received a HUGE surprise when we showed up to my oncologists office.....a crowd of people patiently waiting to greet me & cheer me on as I started my first treatment. It was the biggest outpouring of love I have ever felt. It still brings tears to my eyes when I think about that day and how their support lifted my spirits. For them it may have only been an hour out of their day, but to me it left an imprint on my heart that will last forever. There were also dear neighbors who had signs and balloons along the streets out of my neighborhood. I was so scared and nervous that day, but feeling your support gave me strength. I am so lucky to have an amazing group of friends. Your love makes me strong for the journey. Thank you so much for being a key element of my survivor ship. I could not do it without you!!! Thanks to God for bringing each of you into my life at the right time. He has blessed me abundantly. I received a card with these words on the front...."A day can be transformed by a single lovely act." This is so true. Something as simple as a smile to a stranger or holding the door for someone in need. I often ask my kids if they did any "unexpected acts of kindness" when I pick them up from school. The impact can be immeasurable to those giving and receiving. Think about it. I was shopping in Trader Joe's several many months ago when my hair first started growing out & I stopped wearing scarfs. A stranger caught my eye and told me how much she loved my haircut. Wow! I have no idea if she knew I had lost it because of chemo. I don't really care. Her gesture made me smile and gave me confidence at a time when I needed it as I got used to my new look. Unexpected act of kindness........do it today!!
Love ya, srb
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